FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
AUTISM & WHY WE CREATED HUKAMA
What is autism?
Why Hukama was created
Autism is an invisible disability that affects the entire family. Families who have an autistic child fear discrimination, face a lack of community understanding and are often judged critically. Any of these factors keep families from routine appointments and community events that are openly welcoming to the general public and from receiving support at shelters or when attending community events that are openly welcoming to the general public.
Imagine a snapshot in time of a family, a mom and her two sons Peter and Sam, walking into a busy dentist’s office to obtain routine care. Peter sits down and begins to read a magazine, he is 9 and autistic, Sam plays with his tablet that he brought from home, he is 7 and neurotypical.
While we don’t think any professional and their staff would intentionally discriminate, how a family perceives acceptance, or lack thereof, defines their service experience. Mom checks in, reminding the receptionist with whom she had spoken with when she made the appointment and disclosed that Peter, who is now quietly reading a magazine, is autistic. The receptionist peeks into the waiting room but can’t tell which child Peter is because his disability is invisible. Clearly uncomfortable, the receptionist refuses to keep Peter’s appointment, advising that they will not treat an autistic patient. Meanwhile, the dental assistant swings the interior office door wide open and calls out Sam’s name. He welcomes Sam warmly and invites him in yet. Peter was never given an opportunity to participate. With the Hukama process in place, this would not have happened. This scenario is not limited to professional medical offices but is often the experience in a variety of community settings.
What is “masking”?
Masking does not mean the individual understands the nuances of the situation or is comfortable in the environment. Instead, it means that the individual is going through the motions regardless of their level of discomfort. The inability to conform to expected responses and the drain associated with masking prevent the individual from engaging fully with their community. Creating a rapport with an autistic child requires the professional to better understand the child’s needs and responses and to create an environment where masking is not the basis of the relationship.